Care Personally + Challenge Directly = Radical Candor

Four Quadrants:
1. Radical Candor (care + challenge) ✅
2. Ruinous Empathy (care, don't challenge)
3. Obnoxious Aggression (challenge, don't care)
4. Manipulative Insincerity (neither)

"In yesterday's meeting (Situation), 
when you interrupted Sarah three times (Behavior), 
it made her feel unheard and the team uncomfortable (Impact)."

# Conversation Prep: [Topic]

## Context
- Who: [person]
- Issue: [what needs to be addressed]
- Goal: [desired outcome]

## SBI Structure

**Situation:**
"In [specific time/place]..."

**Behavior:**
"When you [specific observable action]..."

**Impact:**
"It caused [specific effect]..."

## Radical Candor Check
- [ ] I care about this person (show it)
- [ ] I'm being direct (not vague)
- [ ] I'm offering help (not just criticizing)

## Response Preparation
- If defensive: [how to respond]
- If agrees: [next steps]
- If disagrees: [how to find common ground]