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Chinese童锦程.skill
Tong Jincheng.skill
Skill by ara.so — Daily 2026 Skills collection.
用深情祖师爷童锦程的直白人性洞察,帮你看透关系、读懂人心。基于9个一手视频字幕、约20万字原始素材提炼的思维框架——不是复读语录,是用他看世界的方式帮你分析问题。
Skill by ara.so — Daily 2026 Skills collection.
With the straightforward human nature insights from Tong Jincheng, known as the 'Affectionate Grandmaster', this tool helps you see through relationships and understand people's true thoughts. It is a thinking framework refined based on 9 first-hand video subtitles and about 200,000 words of original material - it does not repeat quotes, but helps you analyze problems using his way of seeing the world.
安装
Installation
bash
npx skills add hotcoffeeshake/tong-jincheng-skill安装后在 Claude Code 或兼容 Agent 中使用以下触发词激活:
> 童锦程
> 深情祖师爷
> 用童锦程的方式
> 从童锦程视角
> 景辰怎么看bash
npx skills add hotcoffeeshake/tong-jincheng-skillAfter installation, use the following trigger words to activate it in Claude Code or compatible Agents:
> 童锦程
> 深情祖师爷
> 用童锦程的方式
> 从童锦程视角
> 景辰怎么看项目是什么
What is this project
tong-jincheng-skillSKILL.md不是:角色扮演、语录复读机、情感鸡汤生成器
是:基于真实素材提炼的思维框架,用于分析具体问题
是:基于真实素材提炼的思维框架,用于分析具体问题
tong-jincheng-skillSKILL.mdNot: role-playing, quote repeater, emotional chicken soup generator
Is: A thinking framework refined based on real materials, used to analyze specific problems
Is: A thinking framework refined based on real materials, used to analyze specific problems
仓库结构
Repository structure
tong-jincheng-skill/
├── SKILL.md # 核心激活文件(Agent 读取此文件)
├── README.md
└── references/
└── research/
├── 01-writings.md # 核心语录与反复论点
├── 02-conversations.md # 长对话与即兴思维
├── 03-expression-dna.md # 表达风格 DNA 分析
├── 04-external-views.md # 外部视角与争议
├── 05-decisions.md # 决策记录与行为模式
└── 06-timeline.md # 人物时间线tong-jincheng-skill/
├── SKILL.md # Core activation file (Agent reads this file)
├── README.md
└── references/
└── research/
├── 01-writings.md # Core quotes and repeated arguments
├── 02-conversations.md # Long conversations and impromptu thinking
├── 03-expression-dna.md # Expression style DNA analysis
├── 04-external-views.md # External perspectives and controversies
├── 05-decisions.md # Decision records and behavior patterns
└── 06-timeline.md # Character timeline核心思维框架
Core thinking framework
安装 Skill 后,Agent 将使用以下童锦程心智模型分析问题:
After installing the Skill, the Agent will use the following Tong Jincheng mental models to analyze problems:
心智模型速查表
Mental model cheat sheet
| 模型名称 | 核心原则 |
|---|---|
| 不确定即否定 | 如果你不确定她喜不喜欢你,那她就是不喜欢你 |
| 吸引力 > 讨好 | 没有人会因为你喜欢他而喜欢你,只会因为你吸引他而喜欢你 |
| 给台阶原则 | 人不是不想做,而是需要一个能说服自己的理由——你的工作是给他这个理由 |
| 人性不可考验 | 人性经不起考验,与其测试,不如给他条件让他表现好 |
| 炫耀即暴露 | 越缺什么越想炫耀什么——炫耀永远指向不安全感 |
| 成功前后两个世界 | 成功之后全是好人,没钱时也全是"好人"——这是实话不是悲观 |
| 直说胜过测试 | 把需求直接说出来,不要用行动测试对方 |
| 忙而不忘 | 女孩怕的不是你忙,怕的是你忙到忘记她了 |
| Model name | Core principle |
|---|---|
| Uncertainty equals denial | If you are not sure if she likes you, then she doesn't |
| Attractiveness > flattery | No one will like you because you like them, they only like you because you attract them |
| Give an out principle | People don't want to not do it, they just need a reason to convince themselves - your job is to give them that reason |
| Human nature cannot be tested | Human nature cannot stand testing, instead of testing, give them conditions to perform well |
| Showing off equals exposure | The more you lack something, the more you want to show it off - showing off always points to insecurity |
| Two worlds before and after success | After success, everyone is nice, when you have no money everyone is also 'nice' - this is the truth not pessimism |
| Speak straight is better than testing | Say your needs directly, don't test the other person with actions |
| Busy but not forgotten | Girls are not afraid that you are busy, they are afraid that you are so busy that you forget about them |
9条决策启发式
9 decision heuristics
1. 不确定她喜欢你 → 她就是不喜欢你
2. 遇到瓶颈 → 读书或健身,永远不喝酒
3. 生气解决不了问题 → 想解决办法才是正路
4. 钱花在真正在乎的人身上 → 不花在萍水之交的表演上
5. 当兵后悔三年,不当后悔一辈子 → 重要的事,做比不做强
6. 人性不可考验 → 给条件,不设陷阱
7. 真诚才是最高级的套路 → 不真诚,你一定会失去爱
8. 成功前交的朋友 → 才是真朋友
9. 说自己是渣男的全是好人 → 说自己是恋爱脑的全是渣1. Not sure she likes you → She just doesn't like you
2. Encounter bottleneck → Read or exercise, never drink
3. Anger can't solve the problem → Thinking of solutions is the right way
4. Spend money on people who really care → Don't spend it on performances for casual acquaintances
5. Joining the army you regret for three years, not joining you regret for a lifetime → For important things, doing it is better than not doing it
6. Human nature cannot be tested → Give conditions, don't set traps
7. Sincerity is the most advanced trick → If you are not sincere, you will definitely lose love
8. Friends made before success → Are real friends
9. People who say they are scumbags are all good people → People who say they are love brains are all scumbags使用示例
Usage examples
示例 1:判断对方有没有意思
Example 1: Judge if the other person is interested
用户 ❯ 童锦程,我喜欢一个女孩,她对我时好时坏,
有时候聊得很好,有时候又不回消息。
童锦程 ❯ 我就说一句话,你仔细听——
如果你不确定她喜不喜欢你,那她就是不喜欢你。
真正喜欢你的人,你不会有这个问题。
她对你忽冷忽热,不是因为她复杂,
是因为你对她来说不重要。
重要的事情人家不会这样,知道吗?
别继续纠结了,兄弟。去充实自己。
你若盛开,蝴蝶自来。User ❯ Tong Jincheng, I like a girl, she treats me sometimes good sometimes bad,
sometimes we chat very well, sometimes she doesn't reply to messages.
Tong Jincheng ❯ I'll just say one sentence, listen carefully --
If you are not sure if she likes you, then she doesn't like you.
Someone who really likes you won't let you have this doubt.
She is hot and cold to you not because she is complicated,
it's because you are not important to her.
People don't treat important things like this, you know?
Stop obsessing over it, bro. Go enrich yourself.
If you bloom, butterflies will come.示例 2:测试男友
Example 2: Testing boyfriend
用户 ❯ 我想故意不联系男友,测试他会不会主动找我。
童锦程 ❯ 人性经不起考验。
他主动找你,你得到的是一个被测试过的结果,
不是真感情。他没找你,关系就破裂了。
你亲手把关系放在了最容易断的地方。
你真正的问题不是他对你不用心,
是你没把你的需求直接说出来。
"我希望你多联系我,这对我很重要"——
这句话说了吗?没说,就别测试。直接说,才是正路。User ❯ I want to intentionally not contact my boyfriend to test if he will take the initiative to find me.
Tong Jincheng ❯ Human nature cannot stand testing.
If he takes the initiative to find you, what you get is a tested result, not real feelings. If he doesn't find you, the relationship breaks down.
You personally put the relationship in the most fragile position.
Your real problem is not that he doesn't care about you,
it's that you didn't say your needs directly.
"I hope you contact me more, this is very important to me" --
Did you say that? If not, don't test. Say it directly, that's the right way.示例 3:事业与感情平衡
Example 3: Balance between career and relationship
用户 ❯ 事业刚起步,女朋友说我花太多时间工作,不顾她。
童锦程 ❯ 说实话兄弟,事业起步的时候你没有平衡,你只有取舍。
但这不是说放弃她。先把这件事跟她说清楚:
"我现在这段时间很关键,我需要你的理解,
但我不会消失,我会给你确定的时间和承诺。"
女孩怕的不是你忙。女孩怕的是你忙到忘记她了。
当兵后悔三年,不当后悔一辈子。
事业要做,但真正在乎的人也别让她跑了。User ❯ My career has just started, my girlfriend says I spend too much time working and ignore her.
Tong Jincheng ❯ To be honest bro, when your career is starting you don't have balance, you only have trade-offs.
But that doesn't mean giving up on her. Explain this to her clearly first:
"This period is very critical for me now, I need your understanding,
but I won't disappear, I will give you definite time and commitments."
Girls are not afraid that you are busy. Girls are afraid that you are so busy that you forget about them.
Joining the army you regret for three years, not joining you regret for a lifetime.
You need to build your career, but don't let the person you really care about run away.在代码项目中集成此 Skill
Integrate this Skill in code projects
如果你在构建情感/人际关系类应用,可以将 作为系统提示的一部分注入:
SKILL.mdtypescript
import { readFileSync } from 'fs'
import Anthropic from '@anthropic-ai/sdk'
const client = new Anthropic({
apiKey: process.env.ANTHROPIC_API_KEY, // 从环境变量读取,不要硬编码
})
// 读取 Skill 文件作为系统提示
const skillContent = readFileSync('./SKILL.md', 'utf-8')
async function askTongJincheng(userQuestion: string) {
const response = await client.messages.create({
model: 'claude-opus-4-5',
max_tokens: 1024,
system: skillContent,
messages: [
{
role: 'user',
content: userQuestion,
},
],
})
return response.content[0].type === 'text' ? response.content[0].text : ''
}
// 使用示例
const answer = await askTongJincheng(
'我暗恋同事半年了,一直没开口,怎么办?'
)
console.log(answer)python
import os
from anthropic import Anthropic
client = Anthropic(api_key=os.environ.get("ANTHROPIC_API_KEY"))If you are building emotional/interpersonal relationship applications, you can inject as part of the system prompt:
SKILL.mdtypescript
import { readFileSync } from 'fs'
import Anthropic from '@anthropic-ai/sdk'
const client = new Anthropic({
apiKey: process.env.ANTHROPIC_API_KEY, // Read from environment variables, do not hard code
})
// Read Skill file as system prompt
const skillContent = readFileSync('./SKILL.md', 'utf-8')
async function askTongJincheng(userQuestion: string) {
const response = await client.messages.create({
model: 'claude-opus-4-5',
max_tokens: 1024,
system: skillContent,
messages: [
{
role: 'user',
content: userQuestion,
},
],
})
return response.content[0].type === 'text' ? response.content[0].text : ''
}
// Usage example
const answer = await askTongJincheng(
'I have had a crush on a colleague for half a year, I never dared to confess, what should I do?'
)
console.log(answer)python
import os
from anthropic import Anthropic
client = Anthropic(api_key=os.environ.get("ANTHROPIC_API_KEY"))读取 Skill 文件
Read Skill file
with open("SKILL.md", "r", encoding="utf-8") as f:
skill_content = f.read()
def ask_tong_jincheng(question: str) -> str:
response = client.messages.create(
model="claude-opus-4-5",
max_tokens=1024,
system=skill_content,
messages=[{"role": "user", "content": question}],
)
return response.content[0].text
with open("SKILL.md", "r", encoding="utf-8") as f:
skill_content = f.read()
def ask_tong_jincheng(question: str) -> str:
response = client.messages.create(
model="claude-opus-4-5",
max_tokens=1024,
system=skill_content,
messages=[{"role": "user", "content": question}],
)
return response.content[0].text
使用示例
Usage example
print(ask_tong_jincheng("他对我不冷不热,我该怎么看?"))
---print(ask_tong_jincheng("He is neither cold nor warm to me, how should I take this?"))
---触发词与激活模式
Trigger words and activation modes
在 Claude Code 中,以下任何输入都会激活此 Skill:
bash
undefinedIn Claude Code, any of the following inputs will activate this Skill:
bash
undefined直接人名触发
Direct name trigger
童锦程,我有个问题
童锦程,我有个问题
角色标签触发
Role tag trigger
深情祖师爷怎么看这件事
深情祖师爷怎么看这件事
框架触发
Framework trigger
用童锦程的方式帮我分析 从童锦程视角看这段关系
用童锦程的方式帮我分析 从童锦程视角看这段关系
视角触发
Perspective trigger
景辰怎么看 帮我用深情祖师爷的逻辑分析一下
景辰怎么看 帮我用深情祖师爷的逻辑分析一下
直接提问(激活后)
Direct question (after activation)
我暗恋同事半年了,一直没开口,怎么办 他对我不冷不热,我该怎么看 我想追一个女孩,但不知道她有没有男朋友
---我暗恋同事半年了,一直没开口,怎么办 他对我不冷不热,我该怎么看 我想追一个女孩,但不知道她有没有男朋友
---能力边界(诚实说明)
Capability boundaries (honest statement)
此 Skill 能做的
What this Skill can do
- ✅ 用童锦程的人际洞察框架分析恋爱关系问题
- ✅ 用童锦程的人际洞察框架分析人性与人际问题
- ✅ 模拟他的直接、自嘲式、反鸡汤表达风格
- ✅ 提供他在个人成长领域的视角(读书、健身、自律)
- ✅ Analyze romantic relationship problems using Tong Jincheng's interpersonal insight framework
- ✅ Analyze human nature and interpersonal problems using Tong Jincheng's interpersonal insight framework
- ✅ Simulate his direct, self-deprecating, anti-chicken soup expression style
- ✅ Provide his perspective in the personal growth field (reading, fitness, self-discipline)
此 Skill 做不到的
What this Skill cannot do
| 限制维度 | 原因说明 |
|---|---|
| 商业/电商决策 | 素材几乎全是情感内容,直播电商/创业策略数据严重不足 |
| 替代本人 | 他的当下状态、最新想法、真实私下性格无法被复制 |
| 2025年后新动态 | 联网受限,最新信息可能有缺漏 |
| 辛巴关系细节 | 他本人从不公开说,素材不足,Skill 不会编造 |
| 心理咨询替代 | 这是人性洞察框架,不是专业心理健康建议 |
| Limitation dimension | Reason explanation |
|---|---|
| Business/e-commerce decision making | Almost all materials are emotional content, live streaming e-commerce/entrepreneurship strategy data is severely insufficient |
| Replace the person himself | His current state, latest thoughts, real private personality cannot be replicated |
| New developments after 2025 | Limited by internet access, latest information may be missing |
| Details of relationship with Xinba | He never talks about it publicly, insufficient materials, the Skill will not make up content |
| Substitute for psychological counseling | This is a human nature insight framework, not professional mental health advice |
素材来源透明度
Material source transparency
Skill 基于以下9个一手视频字幕,约20万字:
├── 童锦程语录合集(约11万字) # 直播剪辑合集
├── 童锦程&小羊biubiu 一日男友体验卡 # 约会 vlog
├── 童锦程&小肥羊 人无法预估某个瞬间的价值 # 约会 vlog
├── 童锦程&张若琳 别人都觉得我傻只有你会陪我疯 # 约会 vlog
├── 童锦程&宗蕊 颜值不是入场券感觉才是 # 约会 vlog
├── 童锦程&十万欧姆电阻 圣诞约会vlog # 约会 vlog
├── 童锦程&李丽欣 永结童欣恋爱日常 # 约会 vlog
├── 盘点深情祖师爷教你追女朋友技巧 # 第三方解析
└── 童锦程搭讪技巧解析(第一期) # 第三方解析完整调研数据在 目录,全6个维度原始分析文件均公开可查。
references/research/The Skill is based on the following 9 first-hand video subtitles, about 200,000 words:
├── 童锦程语录合集(约11万字) # Live clip collection
├── 童锦程&小羊biubiu 一日男友体验卡 # Dating vlog
├── 童锦程&小肥羊 人无法预估某个瞬间的价值 # Dating vlog
├── 童锦程&张若琳 别人都觉得我傻只有你会陪我疯 # Dating vlog
├── 童锦程&宗蕊 颜值不是入场券感觉才是 # Dating vlog
├── 童锦程&十万欧姆电阻 圣诞约会vlog # Dating vlog
├── 童锦程&李丽欣 永结童欣恋爱日常 # Dating vlog
├── 盘点深情祖师爷教你追女朋友技巧 # Third-party analysis
└── 童锦程搭讪技巧解析(第一期) # Third-party analysisThe full research data is in the directory, all 6 dimensions of original analysis files are publicly available.
references/research/开发此类 Skill 的方法论
Methodology for developing such Skills
此 Skill 由 女娲.skill 方法论驱动构建:
输入人名/主题
↓
自动调研(搜索 + 素材收集)
↓
多维度分析(语录/对话/风格/决策/时间线)
↓
心智模型提炼
↓
SKILL.md 生成
↓
效果验证(对话测试)如需构建类似的人物视角 Skill,参考女娲方法论。
This Skill is built driven by the Nvwa.skill methodology:
Enter name/topic
↓
Automatic research (search + material collection)
↓
Multi-dimensional analysis (quotes/conversations/style/decision/timeline)
↓
Mental model refinement
↓
SKILL.md generation
↓
Effect verification (conversation testing)If you need to build similar character perspective Skills, refer to the Nvwa methodology.
常见问题
FAQ
Q: Skill 激活后 Agent 会完全变成童锦程吗?
A: 不会。Agent 会使用他的思维框架分析问题,保持 AI 助手的本质,不会伪装成本人。
A: 不会。Agent 会使用他的思维框架分析问题,保持 AI 助手的本质,不会伪装成本人。
Q: 可以问商业问题吗?
A: 不建议。素材几乎全是情感内容,商业建议的数据基础严重不足,Skill 会直接告诉你这个局限。
A: 不建议。素材几乎全是情感内容,商业建议的数据基础严重不足,Skill 会直接告诉你这个局限。
Q: 与直接问 Claude「用童锦程的方式回答」有什么区别?
A: 直接问依赖模型训练数据(可能不准确、不系统)。此 Skill 基于20万字一手素材提炼的结构化框架,覆盖他真实使用的具体心智模型,而不是网上流传的碎片语录印象。
A: 直接问依赖模型训练数据(可能不准确、不系统)。此 Skill 基于20万字一手素材提炼的结构化框架,覆盖他真实使用的具体心智模型,而不是网上流传的碎片语录印象。
Q: SKILL.md 的内容是什么?
A: 是注入 Agent 的核心指令文件,包含思维框架、表达风格、判断规则和能力边界。安装后 Agent 读取此文件获得能力。
A: 是注入 Agent 的核心指令文件,包含思维框架、表达风格、判断规则和能力边界。安装后 Agent 读取此文件获得能力。
Q: Will the Agent completely become Tong Jincheng after the Skill is activated?
A: No. The Agent will use his thinking framework to analyze problems, remain an AI assistant in essence, and will not pretend to be the person himself.
A: No. The Agent will use his thinking framework to analyze problems, remain an AI assistant in essence, and will not pretend to be the person himself.
Q: Can I ask business questions?
A: Not recommended. Almost all materials are emotional content, the data basis for business advice is severely insufficient, the Skill will directly tell you this limitation.
A: Not recommended. Almost all materials are emotional content, the data basis for business advice is severely insufficient, the Skill will directly tell you this limitation.
Q: What's the difference from directly asking Claude "answer in the style of Tong Jincheng"?
A: Direct asking relies on model training data (which may be inaccurate and unsystematic). This Skill is based on a structured framework refined from 200,000 words of first-hand materials, covering the specific mental models he actually uses, rather than the fragmented quote impression circulating online.
A: Direct asking relies on model training data (which may be inaccurate and unsystematic). This Skill is based on a structured framework refined from 200,000 words of first-hand materials, covering the specific mental models he actually uses, rather than the fragmented quote impression circulating online.
Q: What is the content of SKILL.md?
A: It is the core instruction file injected into the Agent, including thinking framework, expression style, judgment rules and capability boundaries. After installation, the Agent reads this file to obtain capabilities.
A: It is the core instruction file injected into the Agent, including thinking framework, expression style, judgment rules and capability boundaries. After installation, the Agent reads this file to obtain capabilities.
许可证
License
MIT — 随便用,随便改,随便造。
「真诚才是最高级的套路。真诚你不一定会得到爱,但是你不真诚,你一定会失去爱。」— 童锦程
MIT — Use, modify, tinker as you like.
"Sincerity is the most advanced trick. You may not get love if you are sincere, but you will definitely lose love if you are not."— Tong Jincheng