• Wants to design an async-first workflow for a team or project
• Needs to write an RFC, decision document, or proposal for async review
• Is preparing a meeting agenda, standup format, or retro structure
• Asks how to reduce unnecessary meetings or meeting fatigue
• Wants to improve handoffs between team members across time zones
• Needs templates for status updates, weekly digests, or async standups
• Is establishing communication norms or a team communication charter
• Wants to facilitate a specific meeting type (kickoff, planning, 1:1, retro)

• Real-time pair programming workflows (that is synchronous by nature)
• General project management methodology (Scrum, Kanban) without a remote focus

1. Async by default, sync by exception - Every process should start as async. Only escalate to a meeting when async has failed or the topic requires real-time nuance (conflict resolution, brainstorming with high ambiguity, sensitive feedback). The burden of proof is on the person requesting the meeting.
2. Write it down or it didn't happen - Decisions, context, and rationale must live in a durable, searchable document - not in a Slack thread or someone's head. Every meeting produces a written artifact. Every decision has a recorded "why."
3. Communicate with context, not assumptions - Remote messages lack body language and shared physical context. Over-communicate intent, provide links to relevant docs, state your ask explicitly, and set clear response-time expectations. A well-structured message saves three rounds of back-and-forth.
4. Protect deep work with explicit norms - Define when people are expected to be responsive (core overlap hours) and when they can go heads-down without guilt. Use status indicators, calendar blocks, and notification schedules rather than expecting instant availability.
5. Design for the reader, not the writer - Docs, messages, and agendas should optimize for the person consuming them. Use headings, TL;DRs, explicit action items, and named owners. Front-load the important information.

1. [Topic] - [Owner] - [Minutes allocated] - [Goal: decide/discuss/inform]
2. [Topic] - [Owner] - [Minutes allocated] - [Goal]
3. [Topic] - [Owner] - [Minutes allocated] - [Goal]

• Action item review from last meeting (5 min)
• Parking lot / new topics (5 min)

Tag each agenda item with its goal type: "decide" (we leave with a choice made),
"discuss" (explore options, decision next time), or "inform" (one-way broadcast -
consider if this could be async instead).

• Channel purpose: Which tool for what (e.g., Slack for quick questions, docs for decisions, email for external comms, video for sensitive topics)
• Response time expectations: By channel (e.g., Slack: same business day, doc comments: within review period, email: 48 hours)
• Core overlap hours: The daily window when everyone is expected to be available for sync (e.g., 10am-1pm PT)
• Deep work blocks: Protected hours when interruptions are discouraged
• Escalation path: When to move from async to sync (blocker persists > 24h, emotional topic, 3+ rounds of back-and-forth without resolution)
• Meeting-free days: Designated days for uninterrupted focus (e.g., no meetings on Wednesdays)

• [Feature/deliverable] - [Owner] - [Link to PR/doc]

• [Work item] - [Owner] - [Expected completion] - [Status: on track/at risk]

• [Decision] - [RFC link] - [Rationale in one sentence]

• [Milestone/deadline] - [Date] - [Owner]

• [Blocker or open question] - [Who can help]

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• Keep a running shared doc (both parties can add topics throughout the week)
• Start with the report's topics, not the manager's
• Allocate time: 50% their topics, 25% your topics, 25% career/growth
• End with explicit action items and owners
• If there are no substantive topics, cancel the meeting - don't meet for the sake of meeting

1. RFC review period ends with no decision recorded - Teams collect comments but never formally update the RFC status from "In Review" to "Accepted" or "Rejected." Without a recorded decision, the RFC becomes a zombie document that people keep re-litigating. Always close the loop: update status, summarize the decision, and note the rationale.
2. Async standup replacing the only team touchpoint - Async standups eliminate a synchronous moment, which is a good thing - but if they become the team's sole communication mechanism, relationship signals get lost. Preserve at least one brief weekly sync for relationship maintenance, not status.
3. Meeting recorded as the primary artifact - A one-hour recording is not a searchable document. No one rewatches it. Write a summary with decisions and action items; include a recording link only as supplementary reference. Defaulting to "we recorded it" is not documentation.
4. "Silence equals consent" norm not stated explicitly - If teams don't know that failing to respond to an RFC before the deadline counts as agreement, they feel blindsided by decisions made without them. State the norm explicitly in the RFC template and the team communication charter.
5. Cross-timezone handoffs written from the sender's perspective - Handoffs that say "I got halfway through X" don't tell the receiver what to do next. Structure handoffs from the receiver's perspective: what is the next concrete action, what context do they need, and what decision is waiting for them.

references/

• references/async-workflows.md

  - Deep dive into async standup variations, async code review protocols, and async brainstorming techniques. Load when designing a specific async process.

• references/meeting-facilitation.md

  - Extended facilitation playbooks for kickoffs, planning sessions, all-hands, and difficult conversations. Load when preparing to facilitate a specific meeting type.

• references/documentation-templates.md

  - Full RFC template with examples, ADR (Architecture Decision Record) format, post-mortem template, and project brief template. Load when writing a specific document type.

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